The term "doula" is commonly associated with support for expectant parents, but the concept of an "End-of-life doula" (EOLD) may be less familiar. EOLDs offer non-medical, holistic support and comfort to patients and their families, which can include education, guidance, emotional, spiritual, or practical care. They play a crucial role in building rapport with patients and caregivers, enhancing comfort, focusing on ideal care and support, and providing a peaceful, non-judgmental presence. Volunteer EOLDs can fulfill various roles, from making phone calls to providing companionship. They also engage in Legacy Work, helping individuals leave behind to be somethings to be remembered by.
Martha, a passionate crocheter, was nearing the completion of an afghan for her 9-year-old great-grandson, having already crafted afghans for her other grandchildren and great grandchildren. When she became too weak to finish the last afghan, her daughter sought a volunteer to assist. Dada, an EOLD since 2021 and a volunteer since 2017, responded promptly.
An avid crocheter herself, Dada visited David Simpson Hospice House to aid in completing the afghan. She worked bedside to Martha for some time, then moved to the atrium, where several family members sat and spoke with her while she crocheted. After five hours, as Dada neared the final stitches, she invited Martha to place the last one. Together with her son, Martha added the finishing touch to the blanket at her bedside.
Hospice of the Western Reserve's End-of-Life Doulas, like Dada, offer invaluable support to patients such as Martha and their families. By helping to complete such a meaningful project, Martha experienced comfort and happiness, knowing she would leave behind a cherished legacy.